What's Good for Me

[photo courtesy massdistraction]

"Once we make our relationship choices in an adult way, a prospective partner who is unavailable, nonreciprocal, or not open to processing feelings and issues, becomes, by those very facts, unappealing. Once we love ourselves, people no longer look good to us unless they are good for us."

- David Richo, How to Be an Adult in Relationships



Possible contenders for Best Sandwich in the World:

fromage et chocolat

  • good sourdough bread
  • high quality dark chocolate chips
  • extra sharp white cheddar, sliced
  • fresh grated Parmesan (optional)
  • butter (optional)

Butter the outside of the bread. Fill the middle with chocolate and cheese. Press between a hot sandwich press and pair with a tall, ice cold glass of water.

honey ham & shallot confit

  • 7-grain french bread, toasted
  • quince & apple's shallot confit [link]
  • honey-glazed ham
  • smoked turkey
  • fresh spinach
  • extra sharp white cheddar, sliced
  • mayonnaise

Spread one slice of bread with mayonnaise and the other with shallot confit. Fill with meat, cheese, and greens.


Life's really good, y'all. I hope you're feeling it.